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  • Are my parents too cheap for the amount we are making?

    Please read all this... Im 14. My parents make around 150,000 a year AND IM AN ONLY CHILD. I think I'm just brainwashed by my friends family's, one of my friends makes like 80,000 a year with 2 kids. And I know for a fact their not in debt. Their just willing to spend so much money on my friend and his sister, like my friend has a whole freaking gaming PC setup, 2 gopros, 2 bikes, and like 5 mac computers. And he gets his own phone plan, and expensive speaker system. My ex-friend, has even more. They make around maybe 100,000 A gaming PC, 10 other PC's ( he is a tech nerd ),expensive Lenovo flex 3, good headphones, ps3, xbox, wii. games, TV for his room, surround sound system, 128 gb iphone with phone plan, tons of small stuff like 3ds's and stuff, and alot of other stuff, he doesn't even act spoiled, I knew him for years and he never did. Back in like 2nd or 3rd grade, his parents would buy him game cards and stuff like that whenever he wanted AND I WOULD HAVE TO PAY FOR THEM MYSELF WITH THE CRAP ALLOWENCE I GOT. and his older sister is in a university, HOW ARE THEY ABLE TO AFFORD ALL THIS. the family is indian. does this have to do with anything? also he has like 4 pairs of nike shoes and doesn't even do a sport, I do cross country AND track, and my mom says that's the only reason why shes getting me nike shoes. But, ugh. I only have a bad computer, a bad laptop from my uncle, a 16 gb iphone 6 with NO phone plan, old 3ds, its just not fair :(
    22 answers 3 days ago Family
  • My step dad has taken my gaming equipment etc and said they are history, I have proof, what can I do, any option is good?

    Best answer: I guess you could wait until you are 18 and then move out.
    8 answers 11 hours ago Family
  • My Borfriend lost his mother?

    Best answer: First of all you're too worried about what other people are telling you. Secondly, there is nothing wrong with spending time with your boyfriend, or weekends, if he asks you to do it and if this is what you'd like to do.

    As for god, he's not worried about what you're doing with your boyfriend. I dont see what the big "sin" is? Do you?

    Even if you have sex with him, you're not doing anything wrong.

    It's your life, hon. And there's no sense in running scared like you are. You're not harming anyone.

    I think that all these religious nuts are doing way too much judging and not enough living their own lives. What does religion teach? One of the biggest things is not to judge others. And people are judging you. How are these god-fearing, religious people? they aren't!! They are busy-bodies who aren't minding their own business.

    I do as i will and harm none. This is what i live by. I'm not religious although i was raised in a christian family. I prefer to live by my own values, make my own choices. I practice kindness and i have moral values. And i'm not here to judge you or anyone.

    You take care and i'm glad you're there for your boyfriend. He obviously desires your company and you're helping him get through a very difficult time in his life. You're a good person!
    6 answers 12 hours ago Singles & Dating
  • How many sexual partners should a guy at least have by the age of 30?

    as in not be looked down as less of a man?
    76 answers 1 day ago Singles & Dating
  • What does it mean when a guy asks to be called "daddy"?

    79 answers 2 days ago Singles & Dating
  • Is my boyfriend abusive?

    So my boyfriend is really nice and we love each other but sometimes he can get a little angry. I know it's my own fault because I do things wrong but sometimes I don't think he realises how hard he hits me. As I said I only have myself to blame but it's hard to explain the bruises to my family and friends. I have to make things up but I think they're starting to suspect something. Last week I caught him making out with another girl at a party but he was drunk so it wasn't his fault it didn't mean anything, but when I asked him about it later on he got very angry. I won't say exactly what he did but I ended up with a broken hand. I told people tripped and fell but my sister doesn't believe me, she said I should break up with him. I think I just need to learn to be a better girlfriend. I don't think he means it.
    49 answers 1 day ago Singles & Dating
  • How can I just straight up ask on of these guys to have sex with me?

    Call me a slut, I don't care, but I've been feeling really horny lately. My ex boyfriend and I broke up 6 months ago and I haven't had sex since then. Masturbating doesn't help anymore. There's this group of pretty awkward, nerdy guys I know. I have heard them talking about how hot they think I am, so I know at least one of them would want to have sex with me. They are all nice virgin guys too, so they would probably be considerate to me in bed. How can I just ask one of them for sex? I don't want to seem like a hooker or something, I just want to know how to lead on that I would have sex with one of them if they asked me?
    28 answers 1 day ago Singles & Dating
  • Would you give your life to save your spouse?

    Best answer: The gunman is lying. He will either kill you both or kill neither of us. I would go for him, Nothing to lose and everything to gain.
    21 answers 1 day ago Marriage & Divorce
  • Agree or disagree: men tend to prefer beautiful women over ugly ones?

    33 answers 14 hours ago Singles & Dating
  • I had sex with a brazilian girl the other day. But I'm not sure if she was brazilian, how do I find out?Lol?

    17 answers 14 hours ago Singles & Dating
  • Do you believe in love at first sight?

    200 answers 4 days ago Singles & Dating
  • I feel happier spending time with my colleague than my husband . Would this be cheating?

    Before you judge me , you need to read the whole thing . Mine is a three year old marriage , and I won't call it a bad one , the first year was heaven , second was good too but something has been going wrong the last couple of months . Our relationship is getting sour , we fight more than usual and then don't make up as quick as before . Moreover my husband is often sarcastic and mean . Also sometimes I feel , he doesn't care for me and respect me like he used to . Now there is this guy at work , who joined some five months back , we work in the same unit of the office and he has been so attentive and caring since day one . I feel so happy and relaxed those eight hours of work when I am with him . He cares if I have eaten or not and also tries to guide me at work when I am faltering , and he is immensely helpful too . We are not having an affair or anything of that kind , but when I come back to my husband , I miss that comfort and ease since my husband doesn't care for me like before . I don't want to divorce him too but what I am doing with my colleague , would that be called cheating
    27 answers 17 hours ago Marriage & Divorce
  • How to get out of going to a wedding after RSVPing yes?

    I had every intention of going to this family member's wedding this weekend but now I really don't wanna go! It's making me anxious and im literally dreading going, the thing is i already said i was gonna attend and now im not sure if the couple already paid for me. I should have said something earlier so I literally don't know what to do? I feel so horrible about this situation and my mental health has been super bad and this added pressure is making it worse
    14 answers 20 hours ago Weddings
  • How far can parents take the 'my house, my rules' argument?

    For circumstances that affect the parents, it makes sense and I agree with it, e.g. Having people over. But, can they really apply this argument to things that have no effect on them whatsoever, e.g. How much time I spend doing a certain activity?
    35 answers 2 days ago Family
  • Is it selfish to move out of state?

    Best answer: Not really your parents made their decisions about their lives........but, remember to finish high school and hopeful some college etc............than start planning for your future........start a savings, make a good budget up and stick to it, find a place you can actually afford........do lots of research.....set up RESUMES that will obtain that wonderful job and nice enough life style or traveling you hope to accomplish.......it takes excellent work ethics, priorities............best of wishes to your future plans..........this is the word PLANNING.
    10 answers 11 hours ago Family
  • Would you date an unnattractive person if you liked their personality?

    8 answers 4 hours ago Singles & Dating
  • Friend says he wants to rape my older sister?

    Best answer: The police won't do anything unless he's made direct threats to your sister. So remove this sicko from your life and keep your sister informed about what he said.
    19 answers 11 hours ago Friends
  • What should I do about my daughter?

    My daughter is 19 years old. She’s a freshman in community college, which I pay for. I pay her car insurance ($2,000/yr), car repairs (thousands of dollars over two years), and she lives here rent free. I also buy all her food and toiletries. She’s in school about 9 hours a week over three days. I don’t think she has much homework. She has a job where she works 2-3 days a week for about 10-12 hours on average for the week. She only pays for her gas and for clothes. Should I continue doing this? She always says she’s so busy but she spends more time with her boyfriend than she does at school or work and sometimes getting her to do chores around the house becomes a chore for me.
    26 answers 1 day ago Family
  • Husband wants me to put on minibikini top with tiny c string in his friend's pool party?

    We will go to his friend's pool party today and he insists that i wear the mini bikini top that is only bit bigger than my nipples and tiny c string that i have to shave because it can barely cover my vagina area. There will be about 10 guys and i am one of the two females. I asked him why I need to dress like that and he said another girl will do the same too. my husband always tell me about his fantasy of seeing me naked in front of guys and creampied by a group of men. He will masturbate and fantasize about me being impregnanted by one of those guys without knowing who actually impregnates me. Will this pool party turns into the creampie reality? I don't know why but i think it is hot and kinda expect this will happen today like these guys just use me as a tool for sex and belittle me in front of my husband, and my husband does know that i am on ovulation now. Should I tell him about my feeling?
    40 answers 3 days ago Marriage & Divorce